Mae in China

This is the Green family's journey to China to adopt our daughter, Mae Pu Fula Evelyn Green. Mae was born 12/27/03 in Chibi, Hubei.

Monday, March 28, 2005

A few more notes on the orphanage

I wanted to finish up our SWI visit. After our tour, we walked to the front of the building where a crowd of local townspeople had gathered. An older man, with very few teeth, reached out to Mae, calling her Lala (her nickname given to her by her foster family - Fula/Lala) and she readily went into his arms. As the stench of alcohol hit me in the face, I saw her laughing in his arms and discovered that he and another woman there were neighbors of Lala's foster family. She was happily being passed around and delighted in the familiar faces. We were told that the foster families had not been invited to meet us - too emotionally difficult. We all took a final picture in front of the SWI and were sent off with more fruit. The SWI director took us on a tour of the town and we stopped to take a few pictures at a city landmark, the sports center?? Everywhere we went townspeople stared and asked questions. In that part of the countryside, they see very few tourists, and even fewer with Chinese babies. I hope someday to take Mae back to see where she was born and give her some sense of where she comes from and what her very early childhood was like. I believe that Rich mentioned that on Gotcha day, we received a photo album put together by the SWI, so we actually have baby pictures of her and pictures with her friends. I think this album will be more important than we can ever imagine as she grows up.

3 Comments:

  • At 7:18 AM, Blogger Paula & Dave said…

    Hello everyone,

    I'm so happy you were able to write. I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face...not sure I can write anything that truly reflects what my heart wants to say. So,let me just say I love you all and can't wait until your are home again.

    Love, Paula
    xo xo xo xo xo

     
  • At 12:15 PM, Blogger fran & chip said…

    Your SWI story was very interesting. We were not permitted to go to Molly's orphanage, and she never had any foster parents, just care givers from the institute. However, your talking about the interest shown in the town when you walk around with Mae is so much the same as our experience, it's amazing. We were often surrounded by older folks who were curious as to why two western women were strollering a Chinese infant. We had a card, written in Mandarin, which said that we were adopting this child and that we promised to take care of her and never abandon her. Evey time we showed the card to the group of interested bystanders they started to cry. We saw more tears flowing from old eyes than we had shed when we got Molly. I guess almost everyone knows a family that has abandoned at least one girl. It is indeed a sad sate of affairs, but Molly and Mae are some of the lucky ones. We can't imagine our famiily without Molly and now you can't imagine being without Mae. I know there's probably a Yiddish word for all this but we'll leave that to Jorge.
    Hope Ian is eating again and feeling better. Thanks for two postings in one day. Much appreciated.
    Our thoughts are with you all,
    Fran & Chip

     
  • At 12:50 PM, Blogger Kimberly Clarkson said…

    What an amazing experience. Mae is a very lucky girl!

     

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